Mit navn er Caroline Marburger, det vigtigste for mig er at kunne inspirere og jeg forsøger at udtrykke min personlighed, gennem min stil og passion for indretning, mode og skønhed. Min blog omfatter velvære, mode, sund- og skønhed samt indretning såvel som mine tanker - jeg glæder mig til at dele mit univers med dig <3
Mit blogunivers sætter fokus på mode, rejser, livsstil og alt der rører sig i dagligdagen for en 21 årig, som lever en travl hverdag i København - lige fra kæmpe opture til diverse dilemmaer. Du vil få et ærligt indblik i hvem jeg er og følge med på min rejse ind i modebranchen og alle bumpende på vejen.
Hej jeg hedder Julie Marie!
Jeg taler for meget - men det er bare fordi jeg har så meget på hjertet! Dans, fashion og beauty er min passion. Min stil er et mix af High-end og high-street. Og jeg mener, at det er kombinationen af de to der gør den til min egen. Mit mål er at inspirere andre som jeg selv er blevet inspireret. Jeg vil dele ud af mine ideer, af min stil og af mig selv.
Velkommen til mit online univers - Jeg håber at i vil følge med!
Hii, & welcome to my blog <3 My name is Julia Matyjasek.
I have Easteuropean roots, but I’m born and raised in the Nordic hemisphere land of Denmark, and now live in Amsterdam. I'm a big fashion lover who lives a double life next to my daily work as an Editor for Danish Television programmes. I always strive for high quality images, where both style, location and editing are considered. On my blog you can find and follow a realistic insight into my life through pictures and text.
I hope you had a great weekend, and are enjoying your Sunday. If you are laying on the sofa and chilling maybe you wanna take a look at the new video I’ve made, on some gifts and shopping I did. In this video, I show you an unboxing Louis Vuitton and Céline present. The video is in Danish this time, I have a really difficult time choosing if I should talk Danish or English, so please help me out with your opinion! it would mean a lot <3
I really hope you wanna take a look and subscribe to my Youtube channel.
You can watch my first video already, and it’s a vlog about how I style my short hair with curls. It’s due to the high demand of people asking me of how I do my curls in my hair, and how long they last. All that you can now see on my new vlog video of how I style my short hair with curls.
The best solution for your new wardrobe is right here in this blog post.
I’m so obsessed with my new wardrobe in my Amsterdam home, that I just had to dedicate a whole post to it. First of all, I’ve been looking for something that looks cool, is modern, but also practical, that’s also not a closed closet, as I like having a good overview of what I have and of course it can’t take up a lot of space.
Luckily I got the answer to that! – Which is simply a Rackbuddy
They honestly have the coolest designs of racks for clothes made out of pipes. It’s so edgy and cool that I completely fell in love with it when I first heard about it. Also, the possibilities are great within their selection. You can choose some of the ones they already have, but also design your own walk-in closet, what? yes, how cool is that? I find that pretty awesome.
About our new home
Unfortunately, the possibilities in my new home are kinda limited, I can’t hang that many things on the wall and it’s also very small, if you know Amsterdam, you know what I’m talking about – let me explain.. the houses here are just in a very poor standard as they are super old. So that’s why we had to go with the already designed versions.. but hey they are also really, really cool.
My new Instagram profile, you have to follow!
If you like to see more interior, decor or just “stalk” my new home, I created a whole Instagram page only for my Amsterdam home –> @juliamatyjasek_home where my boyfriend and I share pictures of decorations, furniture and just the cute vibes from our little 60sqm city apartment. After 6 months of not having our own base in the Netherlands, we are so happy to finally have this place that we can call our home.
We are so happy, because…
It’s crazy how our mood, energy, and routines changed after we moved in, which was the 3rd of December. We are way happier and socializing, but also my motivation for the blog and Instagram went 110% up! and it’s not a secret that I made sure that our new home is totally Instagram friendly of course.
It’s not done yet, but…
I have to be honest! I can’t wait to show you guys more and get it totally finished with decorating, as we are still waiting for some furniture we ordered. Yeah, apparently those kinds of things take a long time to wait for for.. like 10-12 weeks! When I heard that I was like in shock. But when we receive it, I hope that we are going to be super happy about it and that it fits, hahaha:) so stay tuned on @juliamatyjasek_home
Two levels of magic…
But for now, please enjoy the pictures of my new wardrobe that I am totally obsessed with, oh and honestly the two-level part of this rack buddy is insanely smart!! I can fit so many clothes, and it’s so organized. Yaay 😀
I chose 2 of those racks, in the sizes 120cm and 150cm as that would fit my wall exactly. The little hanger for your bags is counted as part of the 120/150cm. You can also get one, that is even bigger: 180cm. But we wanted to have to parts for the long dresses and jackets each.
Let’s talk about some good old positivity. In my last post you could read about my biggest failures as an influencer, right here. And this year is all about how to find me and become a stronger individual. Well, actually a stronger influencer! So I thought about sharing that with you.
I will share with you 3 tips, that has helped me a lot by getting more confident in what I do and also made me way happier as a person and upcoming girls boss.
1. Unfollow everyone who makes you in a bad mood!
Yes, I’m sorry but it’s not personal. Take it as a compliment, it means that I think you have all your shit together and I don’t. If you are very skinny and going to the gym all the time it doesn’t really motivate ME, it just makes me feel bad about myself. Yes, it sounds super crazy but I just have to acknowledge that I’m not strong enough for that right now! I need to follow people who make me happy and that makes me feel good about myself. I understand that you are a fitness, healthy lifestyle blogger but it’s just not what’s good for me right now.
Maybe something else makes you guys annoyed, like people with a lot of designer clothes, that you are not in a position to ever afford, and it only makes you annoyed or think less about yourself, well I suggest to unfollow those people or profiles that makes you unhappy. It’s a bit mean, I know, but it’s really the truth. The most important thing in life is to be happy if that is with 10kg more fat on your body or a Chanel bag, less in your life.
2. Create content that you are happy about!
Create content that you like, if that’s a picture of your coffee in the morning and the newspaper, well then you post that. Don’t think about you getting fewer likes on that post. Your profile has to reflect you, and consist of your identity. People will love you for your pictures and your coffee pictures even if you think that they won’t get as many likes as a bikini photo. I really had a lot of problems with thinking about what I would put out there, but in the end, it has to be my view on what’s inspiring and if I think that is a coffee photo then that’s it. Don’t get affected on the picture getting fewer likes. You put that picture out there for a reason because YOU like it.
3. I need to mention this again! Don’t compare yourself with others!
Just do you, and no one else. I was told a super good quote when I had one of these bad days, where I was crying and thinking why the hell am I doing this Instagram blogger world, I’m not good enough, no one likes my photos bla bla bla.. you know super bad and unhealthy thoughts. But then I heard this quote, which just really changed my view on everything.
The quote was like this:
“The woods would be very silent if the only birds who song, where the ones who sang the best”
I really could see how this made sense! Do you think that the biggest companies in the world where hesitating about starting their company just because someone else made the same kinda thing? I guess not. Look at how many brands sell the same kinda thing, but with their own unique version of it. Well, you should look at yourself in the same way. There are thousands of other bloggers and influencers out there, but they are not you, they don’t dress exactly like you, they don’t look like you and they definitely don’t have the same personality, likes and dislikes.
So for any bad thoughts, you might get off seeing other influencers doing it better, or whatever your thoughts might be
Turn your phone off!
put it away and go out for a walk, watch some tv and get inspired on your own again. Trust me, I know you are created and can make some good content by yourself. Again, this is not a hate message about other bloggers, I’m just trying to tell how you can avoid getting affected by others which is super easy. Maybe you think after reading this post that I’m too weak or have no creativity by myself… but I know for sure I’m not the only one. Creating should make you unique. Think about again why you started to do this in the first place, and what makes you happy about it. If people unfollow you or are not liking your posts, then focus on the ones that are liking and that is following. Those people are your true loyal followers and those you should focus on.
I hope this post made sense and could help some of you who might have gone through the same kinda emotional breakdown and hopefully get you back on track!
Happy New Year! I hope you had a great holiday and a fantastic new years eve. I’m all in my reflection process over the last year right now and therefore I’m Maybe it will even help some of you to understand that you are either not alone, or help you with getting back on earth like me to become a super girl boss. haha 🙂
Instagram failures of 2018
1: Saying yes to everything.
Saying yes to things that do not fit with your vision and purpose. It’s very common, I’ve seen a lot of other influencers doing it, it happened to me as well. I was afraid of saying no because I thought that it was the essence to grow. Even if there was no money offered, I would still say yes because I had the thought, that by collaborating with this brand I would grow more. I was not aligned with my own purpose. When a brand proposes a deal, you should take a step back and think of how your feelings are aligned with the purpose of the collaboration. I recently decided to quit a collaboration because I couldn’t vouch for the quality of the brand. (I’m not going to mention the brand).
2: Comparing myself to others.
This is one is a bit tricky, and I want to make a whole blog post about it, because I think it’s a problem, in general, we people have. I’ve had this all along my studies and in my social life as well. It’s a lack of self-confidence and I’m willing to admit that now. I’m just in a place right now in my life where I can’t compare myself to others as it affects my own business. It’s okay to get inspiration from others which I definitely think is part of being an influencer, you influence and you get influenced of course in your daily life. But moving back to Amsterdam and surrounding myself with people who love me, and want the best for me, definitely changed my perspective of what I want to accomplish with my Instagram life.
3: Using too much time on increasing my following.
Yes, you heard it, right girl, I’ve used countless hours following and unfollowing users on Instagram, and for what? Yes it gave me some extra followers, but not the ones I really want. Also focusing on growing all the time really made me forget about all you loyal followers that daily keep up to date with my post. You guys are the key to my Instagram, and I really understand that now. So for you guys, I’m creating my content. And there is a lot of awesome things coming up. I’m planning on sharing a lot about how to grow your Instagram, what tools and apps to use and edit your photos.
I’m going to share all the goods with you, so please stay tuned and if there is anything, in particular, you would like to know, I’m always right on the other side to answer your questions on the comments below or on my e-mail email@example.com